Background: The last few years, when my husband was very sick, the thing he lacked the most was stamina. I remember one family trip he drove for about 30 minutes, then collapsed into a useless heap, asking me to finish the trip myself, and care for all of the children and all of the activities as well. The doctors ran test after test, and saw no reason for the extreme fatigue, constant pain, and lack of stamina. He had trouble finishing anything he started. He became unemployed and unemployable. Their conclusion was that it was mental. They ran mental health tests, and concluded he was inventing fictitious health reasons to not want to work, or do anything. Marriage counselors all concluded that the situation was hopeless, and that it was time to give up. They tried to convince me that it was not chronic pain that made him mean and unemployed, but that I needed to accept the reality of the person I had married and get on with my life without him. Not that I thought he was perfect, but this was not the person I knew, and I chose to turn to the Lord for help instead. The road to health and functioning was painfully slow, but eventually he did recover.
Yesterday: We had a day off of school/work, and decided to repaint and re-carpet an additional bedroom. After working on the bedroom all day, he went in to work for a few hours, then at 9:30pm, when he got done and had helped put the kids to bed, he got ready to go back and work in the bedroom again. I had to beg him not to. He has nasty allergies, and a severe cough. He had already pushed himself beyond what was considered reasonable or necessary. The room should be done today anyway.
Conclusion: According to the “experts” there is no miracle here. He simply changed his attitude. Not true. The pain has subsided, the fatigue is at “normal” levels for someone with seven kids, and the stamina is not only more normal, but his positive attitude frequently pushes him even further. I guess it is a choice to believe in that miracle or not. I am especially grateful for the stamina.
Miracle number two is that we still have our family. You could argue that was ultimately my choice. True, but I believe most miracles are the result of our choices. I simply remember being told over and over that the situation was hopeless. It obviously was not hopeless. With God, nothing is hopeless.